First impressions. We all make them. All the time.
Some are better than others, and some are so good or bad, that they’re not forgotten and stay like stigma or dog shit on your shoe.
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When defined, a first impression is not the first greatest hits album by Olivia Newton-John and is clearly not (in this case) a 1959 Broadway musical. It is though, how you present yourself to someone which you haven’t met before, for the first time. I find them important, and you should too.
The one thing that I find important with first impressions is that usually the way you encounter someone the first time, you see how they really are.
Why? Because more so now days, when people don’t think much about their first impressions. Maybe because they think everyone will love them, they’re too good for you, have no manners, were brought up by bogans, culturally moronic or just don’t give a shit- which leads me back too the point made before; thinking everyone loves them or that they’re too good-.
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This blog isn’t about how I can make you be more self aware of your first impressions. Why would i benefit you in such a way? You hardly need your dignity. Though, it’s more so to let you (mainly girls) know that when you meet a man on a date, and it’s finally fucking over and you can get into your car, drive away and change into your pyjamas when you get home. That, that moment when you two leave, the thought you get- say it be any of these:
1. Fucking No
2.Fucking Yes
3. What The Fuck
4. I Miss My Bed or
5. I’m officially a lesbian
..That thought is your first impression of that person. stick too your guns, usually they’re on the mark. good or bad.
I’m smart and probably should said no to a second date when I thought ‘Fucking No’.
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