A friend of mine insists that she must have sex on Valentine’s Day and that sex on the big V Day is the goal she strives for each and every year, regardless of her circumstances at the time. It seems reasonable to me. Why go out in the cold to a crowded restaurant, when you can be in the sheets toasty, warm and flushed from great sex on the most romantic day of the year. We can all dream, right?
Achieving this most worthy of dreams is not as hard as one might think, if you know where to go to find love. Be forewarned, it will take some planning. But, hey, we’re lesbians, so that should be no problem. Let the games begin.
The biggest challenge for some women is coming up with the lucky lady. If you aren’t dating already, how in the world do you produce a willing participant on short notice? If you don’t already have a lovely lady that you live with or date regularly, then you’ll have to go out and get one. With all the events all over town, just pick one, with your strengths in mind.
If you’re a great dancer, you should go to one of the many dance events to strut your stuff. The good news is that dancing can be quite intimate and a good way to check her out and hold her close. I’ve heard that you can tell a lot about a woman and how good she’ll be in bed by the way she dances. You might want to test this theory for yourself.
If you’re more about great conversation than dancing, and were born with two left feet, than I would suggest attending a quiet dinner affair. You need to host your own affair or better yet, get yourself invited to a dinner party. If you can’t cook, better opt for the latter.
If you’re neither a dancer or much for talking, I certainly hope you’re a good cook or know how to fix things. These are practical skills that always impress me. So do something unexpected and sweet for that woman you’ve had your eye on. Bake her a cake shaped like a heart, or fix her broken washing machine. Just think of it as a labor of love that will pay dividends in the bedroom in the future.
Believe me, you aren’t alone if you find yourself clueless and lonely on Valentine’s Day. Been there, done that. But at least when you’re single and alone, you have hope. All you need is a plan.
It is much worse to feel lonely while living with a supposed girlfriend who doesn’t care about sex. That’s when you’re truly stuck.
This pep talk is over. Get out there and make it happen. Sex on the big V day is certainly something I wish for you all. Or if all else fails, set the stage for sex in the near future with someone you’re interested in and always remember that February 14th is just another day and only lasts 24 hours, and you can sleep for 10 of those if you need to.
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